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How To Build The Personal Connection And Resonate with Large Audiences

I delivered a keynote at a banking industry association event a few weeks ago. In the follow up, I’ve had a chance to talk with many of the attendees. They were all so excited to speak with me and honored I would take time to speak to them. Some of them were even giddy. This is funny to me, of course, having worked with real celebrities, but it is also the “celebrity effect” that anyone can get and is becoming increasingly important in the ultra-competitive environment we all inhabit. Now, bankers tend to be a conservative bunch and a community not known for being effusive or unduly emotional. So when one of the attendees person in particular said this to me, I was really moved: “You said something that resonated with me. I felt like you were talking just to me.”

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12 June 2015 | 12 Comments

Tags: How To Build The Personal Connection , Preparation , Presentation skills , public speaking

Caitlyn Jenner & My Own Family Story

It's been difficult to avoid the media maelstrom surrounding the transition of Bruce Jenner to Caitlyn Jenner. For me, it had some personal resonance because about 8 years ago, when our daughter, Lily, was 14, she came out as gay. I recall being completely caught off guard. Lily had been a tomboy, skater-girl, always pushing the envelope. She also professed an interest in boys, had boyfriends, at least to the extent 12 and 13-year-olds have them. It never occurred to me, or any of us, that she was gay.

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05 June 2015 | 24 Comments

Tags: adaptable , caitlyn jenner , flexible in our thinking , gay

How To Get Stuff Done

I'm a tenacious bitch and proud of it. As Amy Poehler and Tina Fey say, "Bitches get sh*t done!"

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29 May 2015 | 3 Comments

Tags: confident public speaking , How to get stuff done